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ok, i am getting bored. I shall reply to your post then. People want a show so i shall take ur cue. Here is a dissection of the reply.

First and foremost i would like to laugh at it. Why? I did not call Jen Ming gay. I was just taking a swipe at his most unprofessional reason of having an aversion to girls... which quite automatically leads to the idea of being gay. Who is the person who can't take friendly insults here? I did not mention that you were gay, just that your reason leads me to the pitifully funny idea that you were.

Secondly, I would like to address the issue of my sexuality as Mr. Lai kindly pointed out. If you think i am gay or live alternative lifestyles, well maybe you just don't know me well enough. I like to be flamboyant and I like fashion and these type of gay-associated stuff. Does this make me gay? In your narrow mindset maybe it does. Maybe you cannot see beyond the surface. You know full well that I like somebody now and you feel insulted that i say something like this? Ha. Lousy reason. I am straight. You barely know me, are you fit to say that 1 year of medical is suffice to know everything about me, about my past? I think this paragraph is quite redundant in light of the above statement but i shall defend my honour nevertheless.

ok, when i asked you about the role, it was still the original script that was written by me, sans gay boy scene and musical songs and comical effects. I was also working on the script as yes it needed revisions. Ruinous Blue added the funny touches to it as it was too serious. I think you should know that i can't write the funny stuff. Even so, your role was not expanded by much. You only meet LZ in one scene and die the next. What is there so much to talk about. The original was too short and we had to expand it from 18 to 26 pages. So inevitably there would be editions. Which play do you know has not undergone a revision before being put on stage?

Well yes, i am catholic and i am punning the catholic paedophilia scandal that burst out sometime back. It was more for catharsis and humour as compared to being an expression of my sexuality. I need not prove that i am straight to you. You are not a girl.

Why did i add in the musical sections? Cos i tot it would be easier to express emotions with the aid of a karaoke friendly song as compared to writing out dialogue. Well, i have a fondness for musicals and we decided to make the play more funny and not some competition winning material ie. serious. It might not have been to your liking but i added the songs to lengthen the script time not for anything else. We already wanted to scrap 2 songs and leave the last for LZ to sing. You needn't bother to sing at all. There are other priorities and reason that i need not explain to you, unless you become the co-scriptwriter of course.

I acknowledge the help that you have provided for the script and the irregularities that you brought up. Sincerely thanks. As for the rehersals and timings, well i am not the director. And yes, i admit there was some miscommunication on my part for coordination and everything but, i will not apologise for anything. We only started rehearsals on Monday? And you expect everything pitch perfect? And you pull out the very next day. WOW, gives me so much time for changes.

Why don't you try to be a scriptwriter. Why don't you try to write out something coherent with a decent premise and a plot. Why don't you try fixing scenes and everything. You make comments but you don't provide me with an alternative to solve the problems that you pointed out. I need time to think and i can't keep changing the script forever. If you think the script stinks fine. It is everybody's right to comment and there is freedom of speech. I am not a professional playwright and i try my best as nobody is willing to take up the role. Maybe you should be next year's scriptwriter then.

I have faith in Ling Zhi and Maureen. And Darryl and Anin and Cheesie and Philemon will be my lighting and sound people. I am angry because after you told me you wanted out, i directed you to LZ. And she told me that you were in again and would like some changes. So i made the changes but later you came by and decided to want out. What am i going to do Jen Ming. I gave in to your request at ling zhi's behest and you are still unhappy. And instead of voicing your unhappiness over the script to me, you gave a crappy excuse. I don't appreciate your tact here. It doesn't help in the production. And please, we talked face to face then. What am i supposed to do? Throw a tantrum at you? Why do i post this on the blog? Well, if i were to talk to you, i would have to plead insanity wouldn't i. No way am i going to be thrown out of med school cos of some petulant rubbish like this.

As for the screw avaris bit, i have discussed w you before on msn. Your views were pertinent and not invalid but the words screw avaris were. I took offense to that. You could say over-reacted a bit. Can't you express your views without resorting to using those vulgarities of yours? Avaris might not have a right to comment on what i write on my blog, which you kindly pointed it out, but the vulgarities were highly unnecessary. My hypersensitivity was in part due to the kind sms you sent me which certainly lowered my threshold. I mean, how am i going to differentiate between when are you kidding and when are you angry if you use vulgarities all the time? And since my first impression of you using vulgarities was a bad one, you can't expect me to take the comment likely would you. I don't read your mind

As for the belle thing, i don't want to talk about it anymore. I don't understand why i am caught in the middle when i didn't do anything wrong. Why don't you tell me if being friends with both you was my only mistake in this incident? And if it is, i deeply regret being both your friends.

MUNUS: yes, a long time ago. If my memory still serves me well, you were filling in the role abandoned by somebody. Well, i am sorry that i suggested public transport, a misstep on my part. But i nevertheless still acceeded to Ruinous Blue's suggestion. You say that you went to Night Safari. We went to the other 3 touristy places for them and let you go home to rest. Of course keys don't arrive by themselves nor do forms fill up themselves, we were all played out. As for gathering players to play. Well, why was the women's soccer team only assembled the night before the match that was in the morning? Of course players don't arrive by themselves only if you gave enough notice to assemble them. I helped you with the equipment too if you didn't forget that. So what are you talking about jen ming.

You returned the equipment in the end but i got if for you in the first place. Get your facts right. Well, we were all stressed about MUNUS. MUNUS was a small point. I am more infuriated with you over the sms and the playhouse thing. I never said that you were slacking away. I am not dismissing your irresponsibility but i just couldn't stand the fact that you were raving away on your blog about KW and all the sports and everything were like WALKOVERS? (No team fielded) Then what is the point of MUNUS then. I am ranting at you now and filling in the role which you so conveniently vacated for playhouse. We were also with you everyday save those days which we had our own committments to. And we still went back to help out after that. I appreciate your note of thanks in the medsoc agm but it was still a bloody uncoordinated exercise. Not the touristy parts but the sports parts. You came early while we went back late. I didn't say anything about that arrangement. It was fair.

Look, maybe you don't get it do you, i am angry cos of many incidents not one. And the fact that munus took only 1/2 a paragraph means that it is not really an inflammatory stimulus. more of the above few. I didn't give you fucking shit about u slacking whilst we slave away? I never did say that, you are overreacting and being emotional. But this is a conflict, so we all do. If you wish to take the issue about MUNUS with me, so be it. I don't feel that i have done anything wrong. In fact, i feel that i helped you quite adequately for it. We also didn't get much sleep. So who is complaining here. We were there when you were there with them. So what is the problem? I didn't make a fuss about it did i on my blog? You can check the archives on the munus post.

You were ranting on and off about KW. Why don't you take a retrospective view of your archives. I am not taking your event and throwing it back at you. You assembled a team in the space of an hour. Good. What does it prove? Panic Calling of friends saves the day? Or A lack of planning and early notification? I will not pursue this as i agree with your version and i did express my validation for your anger. As for talking to you face to face... You told me you wanted out face to face when i was given the notification from LZ that you are in and you wanted changes. What more is there to talk about? I hear one thing from her and i get the real reply from you. Am i to say that LZ is lying to me? or you? Why would LZ lie in the first place? I don't quite comprehend.

I am very reasonable in person. Why don't you ask those around me? I don't flare up at people unnecessarily. Look who is talking dude. Who sends me FUCK YOU AND THE WHOLE LOT OF YOU as an sms without basis. Is that reasonable by any chance? What am i to make of it? Sanity? I am not trying to prove anything. I have no need to prove anything to you or the whole world for that matter. Do you even think i want to be like you? Please, if you don't understand the meaning of irony and sarcasm, please don't try to. The 1st post was a mere copy of what you often write on your blog. Vulgarities, name-calling, flying accusations and all. I don't aspire to do what you do. We all lead different lives. I just merely mirrored your behaviour and you couldn't take it. I wonder in amusement.

As for the pharmacology practical presentation. Don't you have any answer to that or are you guilty of that too? Do you really think that you are very well liked? If you are? why do i have knowledge of such stuff like this? Really leaves me in wonderment. If people like you so much, why do you have to request the whole world to de-list your blog after grilling sombody called KW (if i remember correctly). If you dare to stand up and shout your opinions and criticisms to the world, then ask your friends to restore their links to you. Why hide like a chicken?


Finally, the last paragraph. So you have it, my retaliation to your return strike. As for my finishing move, it is only a creation on lardlad's part unless he has witnessed it in action before. Let me reiterate my stand, i am straight. If you think that you can take a joke and slander my good name, it really reeks of desperation. It is undoubtedly a personal attack. Which i can't comprehend why it is so. I didn't call you a faggot. You gave a reason that made yourself out to be one. I couldn't help it. It was so ludicrous. And if you want to make more gay jokes about me, i couldn't care less. I am confident in my own heterosexuality to withstand silly and really low blows by you. Which doesn't make any sense at all after i have typed this. I don't resort to personal attacks in the form of gay jokes. I didn't attack you without reason. My case is stated quite clearly and i have refuted all your text.

One person being declared insane is enough. I do not wish for your title. It is demeaning.



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